We’re Growing

We’re Growing

This phrase has steadied my mothering lately, a gentle reminder that nature isn’t providing much in this season (at least not overtly): We’re growing. When my littlest is set down from her high chair and fusses to be held, and I tell her she needs to go play for a few minutes while I finish [...]

Wintering

Wintering

My friendship with winter is growing. That didn't feel true yesterday, or last Wednesday. But I'm getting more frequent glimpses of January's brand of light and warmth, and I'm slightly more willing to accept her limitations. Already this year, I've had several conversations about these darker days: how they affect us, how to live well [...]

On Unresolved Things

On Unresolved Things

Fall carries some grief with her when she comes.That surprises me every year. Like an accidental tradition, I become a bit melancholic when I realize that the glorious window of leaves ablaze and brisk-not-cold temperatures is closing. And similar to other seasonal transitions, I tend to look back and wonder whether we chose wisely and maximized our opportunities.Was [...]

To My One-Year-Old

To My One-Year-Old

Dear Amelia, Happy first birthday, sweet love! It’s been a precious, soul-filling, challenging, emotional, reflective, and joyful year with you. Your dad and I prayed for you for a long time. There’s a reason we tell you that you’re a joy, a delight, and a dream come true. One day you’ll hear more about that. I’ve thought [...]